Saturday, December 26, 2009

The Wedding!

Kristen and John got married on December 26th, 2009 in the Oakland temple! The ceremony was nice, and it's always a great experience to be in the temple with so many family members. Thank you to Ash and Michael who stayed in the suburban with our kids. Here is some of the group waiting for the married couple to come out. It was a little chilly out, but we were just happy that it never rained, because there was some rain in the forecast. "Here they come! WooooHooooo!" Can't believe she's now Kristen Shafer!
Posing with my parents.

Sisters, sisters, there were never such devoted sisters . . . . . haha, I was pregnant at Stephanie's wedding as well, almost the same amount of weeks along. Ashley, please, please be nicer to me!
Adorable flower girls!

After a while, Scotty went on strike, and decided he had had enough of picture taking. Or maybe he was just feeling a little left out because he wasn't wearing a plum dress:)
Our family picture:)
The beautiful Oakland temple - my parents were married here, and so far all of my siblings have been married here.
The Reception
The reception was later that night and it was absolutely amazing. I'm so glad my parents decided to do it at the Marriott Hotel, and not at the church . . . . there is no way we would have had time to decorate a cultural hall on Christmas, and there is no way it would have looked anything like this: The beautiful Kristen Shafer . . . . still can't believe it!
A picture of my family. See that big Christmas tree we're standing in front of? Well, it has quite the story on how it made its way there. At around 10:00 am on Christmas Eve, the boys (Dan, Jeff, Brigham, and my Dad) set out to find Christmas tree lots to buy some Christmas trees to decorate the huge reception room at the Marriott. After driving all over town, with many failed attempts, they found 4 trees. 2 very big ones, and 2 small ones. We told the boys to get them, at least we'll have some trees (Kathy, my mom's friend and our "wedding planner," wanted 9 trees). They strapped the trees to the tops of the cars, and made their way over to Home Depot and Lowe's, looking for Christmas tree stands and white lights to decorate. Everywhere was sold out of stands and lights. So they bought some lumber to make stands (Brigham cut his hand on his saw, even after many warnings from my mom to not cut his hand:) and they stripped all the white lights from my parents' front yard to decorate the trees with. Then, while driving down Lawrence Expressway, the huge tree strapped to Brigham's car flew off and landed in the road, so Dan and Brigham had to retrieve it. They finally got them to the Marriott, set them up, and got home around 5:30 pm, just in time to shower and go over to my grandparents house for Christmas Eve. Anyway, it was a hassle, but the trees were beautiful in the room, and so many people commented on them. "Where did you get these beautiful huge trees?" haha . . . . I guess it was worth it after all. I really loved the centerpieces as well - the tables were beautiful. The wedding had a pearl theme. There were pearls in the flower arrangements, in the hurricanes, spread out on the table, in the bridesmaids' bouquets, on the flower girls' balls they carried, one in the bows in their hair, and the little girls even had on real pearl necklaces. It was all perfect.
Jeff and Katherine signing the cute guest book Stephanie made for John and Kristen.
And of course the food was delicious. The Marriott did all the food as well. So nice.
Cutting the cake.
Taking time out to eat!
Another great part about this reception was the dance floor. It was so nice having a space where the kids could run around while everyone was eating dinner. Kristen and John had their first dance, danced with family members, and Kristen threw her bouquet. And then the party really started! Ashley and I had made the song play list for the reception. Michael Buble type stuff for the dinner part, some love songs for Kristen and John to dance to, and then some fun party songs. Lots of people got up and danced. So fun! My girls were so into it . . . . I had told Annie that we were going to all dance at the reception, and she was so excited. She loves to dance. She loved dancing with Daddy, but when he was taking a turn with Leah, Annie would go up to anyone and ask them if they would dance with her. She danced with Jeff, Brigham, Kristen, my dad, etc. She danced the night away. I wish I had some good pictures of the dancing, but I was mostly video recording it all.
And then, just like that, it was over. It was a great reception. Everything was perfect and so fun. What a way to start your life together! We love you John and Kristen!!
And then we crashed. (well, after a few hours of clean up) What a crazy few days! It was fun, but never, ever again will we do a wedding the day after Christmas.

Friday, December 25, 2009

"Santa Came!"

And the Christmas morning craziness begins! It looks like chaos, but we did try to maintain some kind of order.Santa knew to bring Annie a tea set!
And the girls both got American Girl Dolls:)
My mom got all the girls these adorable suitcases . . . . sturdy ones too. Just what we needed. Thanks G-ma!


Making our traditional German pancake breakfast.
The six Cole kids rockin' out to Michael's new Beetles Rockband. We spent the rest of the day playing with new toys, relaxing, hanging out, making our Christmas dinner, . . . . . oh yeah, and getting ready for Kristen's wedding in the morning!

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Eve - Part 2

After all the festivities at my grandparent's, we came back home to my parent's house and the kids got on their matching Christmas pjs. They set out the cookies they made for Santa, and some carrots for the reindeer. Then we did our traditional sibling gift exchange and new this year, the cousin gift exchange. The kids loved giving each other gifts. They were so cute, giving hugs to the one that had given them a present. Definitely a tradition we're going to have to keep up! Highlights of the sibling gift exchange included this cute bracelet that 12 year old Michael made for Kristen, which was wrapped in like 50 layers/boxes. so funny!
And this football that Brigham got Jeff - personally signed by Steve Young and Jerry Rice just a few weeks before. Quite the story behind this one!
And then we finally got the kiddos to bed so the elves could get to work . . . .

Christmas Eve - Part 1

Christmas in California always consists of going to my Grandparent's house on Christmas Eve. It's tradition, and that's what makes it so special. But this year was extra special, because not one person from my extended family (grandparents on down) was missing. All 46 of us were there, and it was great.

We had our traditional ham and potato dinner, complete with all the yummy sides. Topped off with my grandma's traditonal raspberry punch. The kitchen was a little crowded this year:) The kid table:
And the not-so-kid table, who apparantly all decided to coordinate in grey and black:)
The pregos: me and my cousin's wife, Andi. She's due 4 weeks before me, with a boy also! We're having a boy wave in the family right now. So fun!
Our only picture together, since one of us is always behind the camera.
After dinner, we hang out for awhile, chatting, being silly, and having fun.


And then we all gather in the living room.
And, as is tradition, my mom plays the piano . . . .
while everyone sings.

My grandpa, grandma, Rob, Scott, and Andrea singing Silent Night in German.
My dad, Kristen, and Ashley
Allen and JulieAnd not surprisingly, after an hour of having 46 people all in the same room, some of the kids can't take it anymore.
And even some of the adults can't take it anymore.
So, we announce it's "Present Time!" and everyone rushes to the family room. The kids all grab their build-a-bears from Grandma Hulme (we actually went the night before to have the kids "build" them) and pose for a picture.
There is giving and receiving, and hugs all around.




But just being together was the best part of all:)

Monday, December 21, 2009

The List

Annie had quite the list this year for Christmas. Every time Santa asked her what she wanted for Christmas she would rattle off this loooong list of items she wanted, in a very quiet voice so that only Santa could hear. I would try to listen, but only caught bits and pieces of it each time. Her list included: a new game, a new book, a tea set, a Fur Real cat, a new baby doll, a rocking chair (not quite sure what she meant by this one, although she said it every time), and a few other things I could never really catch. I love Leah's face in this picture as Annie recited her list - her look says it all!Then Santa would ask Leah what she wanted for Christmas. She would act shy and not answer. He'd ask again, and she would pleadingly look at Annie for help. Obviously, her big sister was a pro at this. Annie would whisper to Leah, "Say you want a new baby doll." Leah would get a big smile on her face and say, "A new baby." And that was that.
These pictures were taken at Annie's Preschool Winterfest.